Sex Clubs in the San Francisco Area

There are many different sex clubs and play parties in the San Francisco Bay Area. Most of these clubs/parties are specific to certain genders and orientations.

If you have questions about etiquette to do once you get to a club or want information on how to find clubs in your area, give us a call or email 415-989-SFSI or

We have separated these clubs into:

  • men’s clubs (generally gay/bisexual),
  • straight/bisexual/lesbian/pansexual/swinger (for men and women), and
  • all genders/orientations (which might have specific parties devoted to certain genders and orientations).

Men’s Clubs

Blow Buddies
Gay/bisexual men’s sex club – Golden showers, leather, underwear, naked
(415) 777-HEAD

Eros Club
Gay/bisexual men’s sex club – sauna, steam room, massage
(415) 864-3767

SF Jacks
Gay/bisexual men’s jack-off/masturbation club
(415) 267-6999

Gay/bisexual men’s gym, hot tubs, and sex club
2107 4th St., Berkeley
(510) 845-8992

Gay/bisexual men’s sex club and baths
1010 The Alameda, San Jose
(408) 275-1215


Mission Control
Mission Control is a safe community gathering place for the open exchange of sex-positive creativity, education, playfulness, and communication.

SF Citadel
BDSM-friendly parties

North American Swing Club Association
Straight/bisexual men and women – swinger organizations

Pleasure Zone
Sexy dance club for women and couples (no sex on premises)
Swing club listings by US state

Twist is a private party which caters to lifestyle couples who wish to share adult intimacy in the San Francisco Bay Area.
North Beach, San Francisco, CA
(415) 812-7221

All genders/orientations

Power Exchange
Sex club for all genders and orientations. San Francisco branch re-opened February 2010 at a new location.
220 Jones Street, San Francisco, CA
(also in Las Vegas)
415 487-9944